Women can be mysterious, charming, and graceful, which can make us feel the exact opposite. How can you approach that woman who caught your attention?
Rodney, Minneapolis MN writes:
“There is a woman I work with that I am completely enthralled by. She is there every day. I can see her from across the office. I don’t know what to say to her and feel like a stammering idiot every time I am in the same space as her. I don’t know how or what to say. My friends are mostly guys and I am not used to speaking to girls. I don’t know how talk to women. Suggestions?”
Rodney, welcome. It’s difficult enough to talk to someone new; if it’s a beautiful lady, it can be even more challenging to figure out your way around, especially if your friends are mostly guys. A lot of men don’t know this, but there’s something else. Women aren’t that different. While they may have curves, elegance, and estrogen, underneath it all, you are dealing with a human being who likely has many of the same emotions.
Talk to her politely and not be rude. You might not be able to discuss everything that you would with your friends, but you will not know until you get to know her what is acceptable to say and not to say. It’s best to be polite and friendly from the beginning.
You can compliment her on how she looks and what she does. Women like that!
Don’t forget to congratulate your employee if she has achieved any important work results. It might be possible to use this to start a conversation. You might ask her to join you for lunch sometime. It doesn’t impose any obligations on her time since it is during work hours. You might be able to make her happy.
It’s not difficult to get to know a woman, but it is much easier than getting to know your male friend. Discuss what you like and learn about her passions and hobbies. Find out if there are any common interests or if you share similar goals and ambitions at work or in life. These are great icebreakers. If you feel that you have a spark, you might be able to talk to her about more serious topics. You may end up spending more time together. Get married now with us for free.
You may find that you have a common interest, or that you enjoy an activity outside of work. Why not ask her to join you? It’s a great way for you to get to know your potential romantic partner. They share experiences that create trust and an emotional connection.
Do not be afraid to try new things. You never know, she may be looking for ways to communicate with you. If this is the case, you might find that you get along well if you give her a chance to talk to you!