There are certain phrases you should you need to remove from your vocabulary if you want to have a healthy relationship. Many guys have made the mistake to blurt out some of these phrases here and there, which made them end up in the dog house for it. There are certain phrases that you should refrain from saying to your girlfriend if you know what’s good for you.
Here are the 5 Phrases Not To Say To Your Girlfriend:
1. “You talk too much.”
It has been proven that women will generally speak more than men. In a relationship, to have a real conversation, you need to listen and pay attention to what your woman is telling you. Normally, she won’t want your opinion unless she asks for it; she just wants you to be a good listener. In reality, she doesn’t talk too much; you just need to be a better listener. If you can’t be a good listener, then be careful because she might find someone who can listen to her.
2. “I think your friend looks hot.”
If you don’t want to be digging your own grave, then you need to keep away from telling your girlfriend that any of her friends is hot. The last thing you want on her mind is that you have been giving enough attention to her friends to find any of them attractive. Remember that all your attention should be on her and no one else.
3. “You are becoming just like your mother.”
When comparing someone to another person, most times they will concentrate on the negative aspects of the other person and think you are insulting them. You need to make sure you don’t tell your girl she is becoming like her mother as she will only think of the bad attributes of her mother and completely take your comment in a negative way. You will never hear the end of it if you slip and make this comment.
4. “I’m not in the mood.”
The last thing you want to tell your girl is that you aren’t in the mood for sex. Even if she uses excuses often to get out having sex, that doesn’t mean you can do the same. If she does it to you, you probably won’t think anything of it, but if you do it to her, she is going to jump to conclusions and think the worst. They will come up with scenarios that maybe you aren’t interested in her anymore or that you already got some sex elsewhere. Be very careful not to use this phrase as it can get you in a lot of trouble.
5. “Why do you get so emotional?”
One very important thing you need to remember about women is that they are very emotional and that their emotions can get set off by much smaller things than us. If you notice that she is getting emotional, make sure you don’t question her emotions, but rather be supportive of her and be there to listen if that is what she needs.
If you want to keep yourself from spending the night on the couch and staying out of the doghouse, you need to make sure you pay close attention to these phrases and make sure you don’t slip and blurt them out. Sometimes you maybe in the middle of an argument or discussion and you may have the urge to let one of these phrases out, but remember it’s only going to cause more problems for you.